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I could just sqeeze thos...His outfit is so darling. I could just sqeeze those precious little cheeks! I hope he is sleeping better now!No.35stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01977109024343722256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-87417167248497864122009-01-16T06:42:00.000-05:002009-01-16T06:42:00.000-05:00Hi there! Ugh! My 8 year old was a colicky infan...Hi there! <BR/><BR/>Ugh! My 8 year old was a colicky infant, so I read the book that Finley's Mom suggested when she was about 2 months old(Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Baby by Marc Weissbluth)and it worked like a charm, but MAN, is that a hard thing to do.....and I'll bet it's even harder when you have 2 other babes like you do. I used to read key points of the book WHILE she was crying to remind myself why I was doing this.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there, it's going to take a while, but it will better for everyone in the end. My 8 year old is such a great sleeper! To this day! I give this book to every new Mommy.<BR/><BR/>Hugs to you and the family....the noise of the crying can be hard on everyone.Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782925951300369029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-80928753245195066872009-01-15T23:37:00.000-05:002009-01-15T23:37:00.000-05:00My little 6 month baby boy (and incidently just ov...My little 6 month baby boy (and incidently just over 18 lbs too!) is not a good napper. I had to let him cry today and it was horrible! My MIL called during and then after to let me know how proud she was of me. It was so hard, but he did finally get the sleep that he so needed. I hope that your sweet little one sleeps much better soon...what a cutie!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17607626025839355401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-26508273112115293522009-01-14T16:45:00.000-05:002009-01-14T16:45:00.000-05:00oh my, I am going through the same thing with my 1...oh my, I am going through the same thing with my 17 month old, he hasn't required much sleep since he was born and as he gets older the less he seems to need. he wakes up several times a night and like you I just can't stand for him to cry...good luck. we are trying to let him cry it out also! Good luck-WE'RE GOING TO NEED IT!The Buchanan Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15489772426981545564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-51447267090301744022009-01-14T15:01:00.000-05:002009-01-14T15:01:00.000-05:00OH sweet Darbs I'm there girl-- I'm there!OH sweet Darbs I'm there girl-- I'm there!lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02435554963140073012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-72654899086494902052009-01-14T11:10:00.000-05:002009-01-14T11:10:00.000-05:00Could he get any sweeter! Im a sucker for that smi...Could he get any sweeter! Im a sucker for that smile too! Do the best you can do and enjoy your sweet bundle of joy! There is not ONE solution for all babies, so do what works for you!Carlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00203135909470484170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-24458236132859803032009-01-14T11:08:00.000-05:002009-01-14T11:08:00.000-05:00I am not a fan of the cry it out method at all...i...I am not a fan of the cry it out method at all...it just seems to harsh and mean to make an infant do that, for me personally. I found a solution with the Sleep Lady and her "Sleep Lady Shuffle." It worked for my child who's now 2..she coslept with us until she was 14 mos and I thought we'd never get her out of the bed...Joy Petersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14017247909040065396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-82567634182425421032009-01-14T10:19:00.000-05:002009-01-14T10:19:00.000-05:00Oh I remember the days of letting my baby cry. It...Oh I remember the days of letting my baby cry. It helps to crank up some music so you can't hear it as much or walk to the mailbox! Also look at the clock when he starts because sometimes it's not as long as we Mommies think! It helped me to see she had only been crying for 5 min when I felt like it had been FOREVER!<BR/><BR/>I'll be thinking and praying for you...Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18355490512757848795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-38793008061765750342009-01-14T08:35:00.000-05:002009-01-14T08:35:00.000-05:00letting my children "cry it out" seemed so insane ...letting my children "cry it out" seemed so insane to me....I cried with them in the other room, but now I have two great sleepers! my husband, who seemed unbothered by the screaming would handle bedtime much better...so I would take a bath, or go for a walk around the block....reading all the other comments looks like us mommies are not alone....prayers and thoughts with you from one mom to another.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14776953499294259186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-40576524762443736932009-01-14T08:13:00.000-05:002009-01-14T08:13:00.000-05:00i think you need to get away for a weekend and com...i think you need to get away for a weekend and come see me... i will pamper you and promise not to wake you up in the middle of the night. you are an awesome mommy... you'll have that hornet trained in no time!!<BR/>XO <BR/>mommasiserikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07890559705160346176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-89720657462651088332009-01-14T00:04:00.000-05:002009-01-14T00:04:00.000-05:00It is killer! For some reason it was easier for m...It is killer! For some reason it was easier for me to let my daughters cry than my son... weird. He is such a momma's boy.Tynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14535856784660902029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-46033260247786054172009-01-13T22:44:00.000-05:002009-01-13T22:44:00.000-05:00Boy this brings back memories. My grown son wasn't...Boy this brings back memories. My grown son wasn't a sleeper and still is not. I let him cry and I'd cry too. I finally decided to use that time for my shower. I couldn't hear the crying and he finally stopped. Of course, I was a prune! LOLDiannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11657813110377917661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-923440357951956302009-01-13T21:26:00.000-05:002009-01-13T21:26:00.000-05:00He is a handsome and sweet looking little hornet. ...He is a handsome and sweet looking little hornet. If it makes you feel any better Little C still wakes up at 3 in the morning , puts on her snow white outfit and comes into our room every night. And I did the crying it out thing when she was a baby and it did help somewhat. I will pray for you guys!!<BR/><BR/>Lots of love,<BR/>Alison B.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-35714974875646775542009-01-13T18:06:00.000-05:002009-01-13T18:06:00.000-05:00You can do it! You can do it! He's safe, healthy...You can do it! You can do it! He's safe, healthy and loved. Three days, five max and he'll be sleeping like a champ. I know how hard it is to sike yourself up for this, but it's so worth it, for both of you.Todd and Randihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12365512795464178819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-19442141041817322512009-01-13T17:25:00.000-05:002009-01-13T17:25:00.000-05:00Hey Darby! I'm a new "commenter" though I've been...Hey Darby! I'm a new "commenter" though I've been obsessively reading your blog for months. Just wanted to add a shout out that though the road is hard when your kid is screaming, the result is TOTALLY worth it!!! Hang in there!!! :)<BR/><BR/>KatieThe Braddockshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15426900934120393756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-2174811017998589982009-01-13T17:19:00.000-05:002009-01-13T17:19:00.000-05:00i stumbled across your blog and LOVE it! my famil...i stumbled across your blog and LOVE it! my family and i are in similar situations - renovating a house, toddler girl "dramas," and a cutie-patootie baby son who, like your little man, does NOT like to sleep, especially not alone in his own crib. so nice to know we're not alone! : ) we just started the cry-it-out method too. ick!mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15232335236915068150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-42262604238119565722009-01-13T16:36:00.000-05:002009-01-13T16:36:00.000-05:00I really know your struggles! I have a now 5 month...I really know your struggles! I have a now 5 month old son who had severe colic and cried every minute of every day for 3 months (unless you had the vaccuum cleaner on- which now doesn't work b/c we didn't turn it off for 3 months!!)Anyway. once the colic was over he still wasn't a good sleeper. He would go to bed around 8 and get up sometimes before I ever got in the bed. Needless to say I was a total zombie (i can't even imagine how you are doing it with 2 other children). Anyway, we finally decided to let him cry it out. He cried for hours at a time for 4 nights and finally gave up. Now he sleeps from 7:30 pm to 7:30am. Good Luck! It is so tough. We will be praying for ya'll. And yes, he is absoutely precious and I can imagine that it is tough to let him cry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-14571954171913835622009-01-13T16:23:00.000-05:002009-01-13T16:23:00.000-05:00That is really a tough one..I am not a fan of cry ...That is really a tough one..I am not a fan of cry it out. Nether of my boys were sleepers until they were much older, they will get it eventually even with out the crying..Every parent makes the best choice for the family, but just know that cry it out is not the only option to get one to sleep...Hang in there.The Gotbetershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14822209505339092655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-57989322542894249432009-01-13T16:04:00.000-05:002009-01-13T16:04:00.000-05:00I am so with you! I have yet to put Hudson in his ...I am so with you! I have yet to put Hudson in his crib. He likes to eat thru the night as well. I know it's time and reading this post has given me the strength to do it. I will be praying for you both!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-49360917677398016702009-01-13T15:34:00.000-05:002009-01-13T15:34:00.000-05:00YIPPPEEE!!!!!!!!!!! I have wanted to say it too. ...YIPPPEEE!!!!!!!!!!! I have wanted to say it too. LET THAT BABY CRY. HE will be fine. Get in the shower...a long one. Go outside. Put on your ipod. He will learn and you will sleep, eventually. He must learn how to do this in order to promote healthy sleep. :) I have a great book called Healthy Sleep Habits, Healthy Baby if you would like to take a look. Hugs~~~~andihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12557609279509341021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030761737597217504.post-84569332590556363362009-01-13T15:17:00.000-05:002009-01-13T15:17:00.000-05:00Repeat this mantra: "I'm being a GOOD mom, I'm bei...Repeat this mantra: "I'm being a GOOD mom, I'm being a GOOD mom, I'm being a GOOD mom" Because you ARE! He won't remember....only you will so if you tell yourself that you're being a good mom then you won't feel that guilt now or later. Have you ever read "On Becoming Baby Wise" by Dr. Gary Ezzo. It's controversial but we did the 'babywise' method and it worked SO well. I agree with Becky, it hurts up front but it's so worth it. The white noise or music is a good idea too. "Lord Jesus comfort JM right now and mostly comfort Mama, she needs it more than she knows. And Lord reveal to Darby what an important job being a Mama is and how she's doing such a GREAT job!"Mommy Harrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04252546340554147783noreply@blogger.com