Tuesday, October 23, 2007

3 posts in one day...

So, I just found on the Fox website that one couple learns that their unborn baby has Trisomy-18 and are facing whether or not to terminate the pregnancy. I'm assuming if any of y'all are regular stalkers of this blog that you have read some of Boothe & Conor's blog. I wish this couple could read the Farley's blog... I'm certain it would impact their decision.

Check this out...

I have a Fox News feed on my Google homepage and this morning I noticed a headline entitled, Exploring Abortion Through 3 Women's Right to Choose . I have a strong opinion on this subject and wondered what on earth they were going to say... in a nutshell there is going to be a program on this Saturday evening Oct. 27 at 9pm (EST-- that's 8 CST) on the Fox News Channel that follows 3 different women who are contemplating an abortion. The article doesn't say what their decisions are, rather, says to watch the show. Talk about a cliffhanger! We have basic cable television but I may have to find someone who gets Fox News on Saturday evening. Since Fox prides them self on being "fair and balanced" I'm hoping and praying that the message of the Gospel will somehow make it's way into this program and that women who are watching who are pregnant and contemplating an abortion will be informed of alternatives that would allow their children the chance of life.

Here are a few statistics that never cease to blow my mind and break my heart...


Abortion in the United States - Statistics

There have been over 48 million abortions since 1973.
The annual number of abortions went from 744,600 in the first year of legalization, to a high of over 1.6 million in 1990. In 2003, there were 1,287,000.
There were over 3,500 abortions per day in 2003, 146 per hour, about one every 25 seconds.
For every 1,000 live births, there were 312 abortions in 2003.
There were more that 148,000 second and third trimester abortions in 2003.
In 2003, more children died from abortion than Americans died in the Revolutionary War, the Civil War, World Wars I and II, the Korean, Vietnam and Gulf Wars combined.
A 2004 survey of women seeking abortions indicated that only about 7% of women cited typical “hard cases” (rape, incest, or some health concern with either the baby or the mother) as the primary reason they were seeking abortion.
An April 2004 Zogby Poll found that 56% of respondents support legal abortion in only three or fewer circumstances: when the pregnancy results from rape or incest, or when it threatens the life of the mother.
At an average cost of $372, the abortion business is a $400 million a year industry.
Nearly half of all abortions are obtained by women who have already had at least one abortion.


I hope these stats (that are from the CDC and posted on the National Right to Life website) will tug at your heart like they have mine.

Just something to think about...

To Terrazzo or Not To Terrazzo!?

Terrazzo floors that Justin is trying to unearth



We were thrilled to find lovely terrazzo floors beneath the carpet, linoleum, and tile in the kitchen/great room... however, cleaning and restoring them has been a challenge. A challenge that we keep going back and forth on; do we do it or not (I should actually say, should Justin do it or not)? According to my research these terrazzo floors are quite a luxury and if we wanted to have them installed (if we could even find someone to do it) we'd be looking at about $50 to $60 a foot! The only thing that I can compare them to is Zodiaq Quartz. I took this picture this morning after Justin spent several hours on a orbital sander trying to sand off all the tile grout and linoleum glue. I know they can be beautiful... the question is... can we get them there? I'm hoping that we can. The wood floor guys have assured me that the thresholds into the other rooms of wood will be smooth but I still am having a hard time picturing the transition from this to wood... especially when there are 4 entrances into these rooms. Thankfully my very talented sister seems to think they will be PRACTICAL and BEAUTIFUL. I'm hoping she's right. We've already purchased all the wood flooring for these 2 rooms and thankfully the supplier said they would return it all for us. So, we'll see how the restoration process goes. The good thing is that we can save a TON of money by doing this! Justin's over there now... buffing away at the grime on top of them. The electrician is still there today and I'm scared to death to see the bill... I feel like he's been there a week.




I also wanted y'all to meet Carol, she's Paige's new baby. She hasn't been without her for a couple days now and I'm starting to feel like the mother of 3. Thankfully I didn't have to give birth to Carol (although she's rather small and probably wouldn't be hard to birth). I find it so amusing that a 15 month old has a baby doll. Morgan has never been attached to a doll or blanket so this is throwing me off. I tried to leave Carol here when the Raiger and I went to get Morgan from school and she threw a fit so Carol came with.
Ok, I'm off for now! Happy Tuesday!


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Sunday, October 21, 2007

A Great Weekend

The girls snuggling tonight when we got home... (Morgan with "Peter Cottontail" and Raiger with "Annabel")




It's Sunday night and the girls are in bed and have been since 7:30 (why don't we do this every night!?). Justin's watching baseball and I'm on his laptop uploading pictures and wondering how it works because it's all wireless. Technology blows my mind.



Anyway, we're home and had so much fun at the beach. I always consider myself blessed to have in-laws that are selfless, giving and gracious. They have taken us on many trips and treated us to many luxuries that we otherwise would never be able to do and for that I am so grateful. This weekend was one of those weekends that Justin and I would only have dreamt about. We stayed at the Grand Sandestin Hotel in Baytowne Village and it was absolutely wonderful. We dropped the girls off with Erika and Chance on Friday evening (another luxury) and headed straight to the restaurant where the party was to happen. Dave was very surprised and rightly so. Somehow Jennifer managed to pull off a HUGE surprise and there were around 90 people there to help celebrate... some from as far as San Diego. We had the entire second floor and it was a fun and festive atmosphere. With full intentions of making the most of my time with my husband without children I decided it would be fun to partake in a glass of Chardonnay from the open bar. This proved what an absolute weeny I am. I feel like I've been breastfeeding or pregnant for the last 4 years and should have realized that a glass of wine when you're starving and it's past your bedtime is probably not a great idea! Next time I'll have dinner then the wine! (And Robin, perhaps I'll have to try yours from a box!)



Saturday morning we picked up the girls from E and Chance's. They of course spoiled them rotten with a trip to Pizza By the Sea for pizza and then took them to get new books & a new rabbit. Morgan hasn't put Peter Cottontail down since she got him. In fact, tonight I heard her in Paige's room and I walked in to find her in Paige's crib with a book and she had the rabbit covered with a blanket and she explained, "Shhh... Mommy, I'm reading to Peter Cottontail... he's so tired!" I couldn't resist a picture so I ran to get the camera and then when I managed to find it and get back in there this is where I found her...



She managed to make her way to the top of Paige's changing table and she said, "Shhh Mommy! I'm trying to concentrate on changing Peter Cottontail's diaper... he has a big poopy!" She had wipes and diapers and the whole 9 yards. It's been a big night full of lots of pretending and make believe... I love it all and just watch waiting for what will be said next!



Anyway, we picked the girls up Saturday morning and went to visit with some close friends from Anniston that were at the beach on vacation. We had such a wonderful and formative year while we were in Anniston that the friends we made there will be our friends for life. It was great to see Morgan playing with her friend Ava that she hasn't seen in over a year. And we loved meeting their new precious angel, Annie Benton!



We made a stop in Seaside for lunch on our way back to Baytowne. We somehow spent the rest of Saturday afternoon trying to get the girls to take a nap at the hotel. It sure is challenging to travel with kids... new rooms and strange beds and an exciting new hotel with a huge pool makes nap time almost impossible... which we finally gave up on by dinner time Saturday. We joined up with Justin's parents and brother (Ryan) and his family and spent a wonderful evening at Hammerheads. The kids got to join in with the band and they all got to sing "House" on "Brick House"! I felt like I was at an Auburn band party. And I was hoping Morgan would not start singing "She's a brick.... house" Thankfully she only picked up on her line "house"!


Justin watched the game last night and I couldn't keep my eyes open... I fell asleep and when I woke up in the middle of the night he informed me that we lost and I was thankful that I didn't force my eyes to stay open to watch my Tigers lose. We stopped by Erika and Chance's again this morning on our way out of town. Her new office looks awesome and I'm hoping she'll post some pictures of it soon on her blog. She has such talent and it comes so natural for her. She's like my in-law's; always willing to give of herself for me and others! Thanks sister!! We love you (and Chance) thanks for babysitting Morgan and the "woman". And sorry Paige kept you up through the night... did my girls set the baby calendar back even further? I hope not!!

Click here for more pictures from this weekend.


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Friday, October 19, 2007

MommaSissy




We're all ready to come see you! Morgan has packed a bag of all her essentials... books & blankets. I'm not sure why kids can't look normal for pictures. The first picture I told Paige to open her eyes (@ least she can obey a command). The second picture I told Morgan to open her eyes (she too can obey a command)!

Caroline, you can click here to get to E's blog. But the address is... http://urbangraceinteriors.typepad.com/the_blog/

We're heading out this afternoon for a fun filled 50th birthday party for my brother-in-law (that's right 50th... not a typo) at the beach. It's a surprise but I'm about 100% sure he doesn't read my blog so I think I'm safe. The whole Stickler family will be there and it should be a great time. Chance and Erika have graciously offered to keep the girls tonight. Morgan is thrilled and Erika will be wiped out by tomorrow morning!

The family was doing well this morning, considering their circumstances. The boys are being discharged today. So please please please pray for them... going home will be very difficult without their mother.

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Random Stuff


I'll start tonight with an explanation of this picture. This is the Raiger (I'm starting to fear that her name may "stick", well at least I've never met another "Raiger"). She is my youngest daughter and she is 15 months old. This is the part of the blog where I once again add the "I'm her mom" disclaimer. In case you didn't know, my Raiger is the smartest, cutest, sweetest, most hilarious 15 month old child on the the whole EARTH! And if you want to know about the smartest, cutest, sweetest, most hilarious 2 year old on the planet--- I can go there too! But back to the Raiger... she will only eat her meals using a fork. Because we live in a crazy world (filled with crazy people who like to sue companies that make children's forks with sharp points) finding a fork for a child that is actually sharp enough to "stab" a piece of food is nearly impossible. So, being the resourceful mother that I am, found a sharp "baby size" fork intended to be stabbed in the end of an ear of corn and then lathered in butter. She loves it and won't eat without it! Meal time with this one makes me laugh! Shelli... she and AR could be sisters in their headbands!

Well as you can see by my lame title "Random Stuff" I'll switch gears entirely and fill you in on my friend Chris. It's been a while since I've updated you so here's the latest in a nutshell: he started chemo today (48 hour dose in hospital--- please pray), tomorrow is his 30th birthday (Happy Birthday, Chris!), the surgery was a success (with only one minor setback (infection in leg)), he's doing chemo at home to be near his family (answered prayer), he sounds great and looks great (answered prayer), and he's engaged (answered prayer--- I really LOVE his fiance-- she's as sweet as they come, loves the Lord, and is a Tiger Fan!) Wow... lots is happening in his life! I know he'd appreciate your prayers!!

Also for those of you who are late night bloggers... I'm taking breakfast to the hospital tomorrow for the family (and the extended family they have in town) in our Sunday school class who was involved in the car accident. Not sure what that will entail as far as seeing the boys and Cliff or not, but I'd love your prayers for the right words (not sure there are any now) and I'd also love for y'all to continue to pray for these folks. The boys are doing better and are out of ICU. Extended family has arrived and I imagine they are all feeling overwhelmed with what is before them still.

We've had a good week! Justin has been working hard on the new house and the electrician has been there the last 2 days. The floor guys have yet to show (which isn't necessarily bad-- due to the fact that we're not quite done painting--- believe it or not!) and the cabinets in the kitchen are going to need a little extra TLC from a cabinet expert. A few minor setbacks, but we're still seeing progress so that is good! The fluorescent light is down in kitchen and the other awful chandelier in kitchen is down and the recessed lights are in in the den and kitchen. What a difference a little light will make! My pendants are in over the bar and things are coming together. The gas company is going to run gas to the house for us... which is great.... but means no propane so I'm not able to justify those gorgeous gas lanterns... maybe one day! Justin has worked his tail off (Morgan loves this saying and always says, "people don't have tails!") painting every square inch of this house. I'm glad it's the 5th house I've convinced him to paint... the first one took so much convincing and he's finally starting to trust me. He's also on the couch now watch baseball and talking to himself... or maybe he thinks I'm listening! :)

Well it's getting late and I'm pooped. I hope that you all are doing well... anyone try any of my favorite products yet? Mom called from Walmart yesterday and wanted to know if I thought she would be "Light/Medium" or "Medium" in the Smart Shade make-up... it made my day! :) I love you Mom! Too bad some blog stalker broke into my house and stole my Smart Shade make-up... that's for you Sister! Just wait 'til you have 2 kids and no sleep... you might start to process your thoughts the way I process mine... oh dear! Ok, I'll share what I'm talking about... ironically, the day after I posted my list of "favorites" my Smart Shade make-up went missing... I made the mistake of asking Sister if she thought someone who read the blog came to my house and stole it. It's ok for you to laugh out loud now. You know I drink that poison stuff and it really kills my brain cells. Erika said, "Darby, you have got to be kidding me. Do you really think someone broke into your house to get your make-up!?" Now that I hear myself say it, that does sound pretty ridiculous. I'm laughing so hard right now that Justin just checked on me because he thought I was crying... I've been known to do that in front of the computer screen too. Erika has a blog now so I'm up against some tough competition. The only difference is that you'll be able to afford the products that I promote... you'll have to take out a second mortgage for hers! And my kids are cuter than hers.... and don't bark as much!

Time for bed! And if anyone did steal my make-up... I'd like it back. Even though I've already replaced it! You can never have too much of a good thing!




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Tuesday, October 16, 2007

War Eagle Girls!




This will have to be a quick one, as my youngest War Eagle Girl is stirring. I just wanted to give a little "War Eagle" to all my Auburn fans! :) How appropriate that football is on in the background! Life is good here on the ranch! Morgan is off of "school" this week for "Fall Break" and we'll be spending lots of time at the park! We're looking forward to visiting with MommaSis and Uncle Chance this weekend!!

Monday, October 15, 2007

Update on Barnes family

Hey folks,
Please continue to pray for this family. The dad (Cliff, who sustained injuries himself (broken arm and lacerations) but was released shortly after he arrived at the hospital) has graciously been given a room at the hospital to stay while his children recover from their internal injuries and they are providing his meals. The boys are both in stable condition in ICU and are expected to fully recover from the internal lacerations they sustained from the wreck. This morning around 11 Cliff informed the boys of their mother's passing. Please continue to pray for this family as they are going through such an incredibly difficult time. People from our church have been with Cliff around the clock. Angela's (the wife) mother is due to fly in later this afternoon and Cliff's family will be arriving in a day or two. The boys are expected to be hospitalized for up to a week. Our church and others are able to meet their physical needs, please pray that our Father will meet their emotional and spiritual needs through this time. I will do my best to keep you updated!!! PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR THEM!!

Sunday, October 14, 2007

Prayer Request

It's Sunday evening and Justin and I just learned that a couple who sat behind us in Sunday school this morning were involved in a very bad car accident on their way home from church. Their van was hit head on by another vehicle. The mother, Angela (30), was killed instantly. The dad has been released from the hospital and the 2 boys (8 & 3) remain in ICU at the hospital. Please pray for this family. They have been visiting our church for several weeks now. Click here for more info on the wreck. It may take a minute to load, there are several pictures. The family is stationed at Ft. Rucker and do not have any family in Dothan. Please, please, please pray for this family!

Friday, October 12, 2007

Fun for Friday!

I've been thinking about doing this post for a couple weeks now and I thought there was no better day than a Friday! Especially a Friday when you wake up and it's actually COLD outside (which makes me really happy)!! I do believe Fall is finally on it's way! The nice thing about a blog is that it belongs to me so I can do whatever I want! And I guess you can choose to read or not read... but I hope you'll read because this ones going to be GREAT! Anyway, I've put together a little list of a few of my favorite things that I wish someone had told me about many months ago... so being the responsible blogger that I am... I am going to share these lovely products with y'all! And even though I can't offer each of you a "satisfaction guaranteed" warranty on all of these, I can tell you that I love them and think they are all wonderful! :) So, for what it's worth... in no particular order... here are some of my favorite things:



This first product I learned about 4 months ago and now wonder if I'll ever go without it. I'm not a fan of makeup, in fact, I only apply make up on Sunday mornings. However, this is one "make-up product" I rely on daily. It is a creamy white when you squeeze it out and it rubs in to a beautiful color that blends wonderfully with your skin color and it's SPF 15! It's good for covering those things on my face that Morgan calls "lines". I've also been known to mix it with my face moisturizer (Cetaphil) and it just makes me happy!


Ok, so this isn't exactly a product but it's one of my favorite things... Cottage Living Magazine! If I was only allowed to have one magazine this would be it. I could read every issue cover to cover and then read it again! It's worth every cent of the subscription fee and when I find it in my mailbox it makes me happy!



Next.... this is where my addiction confession comes in. If you enjoy drinking "poison" like I do... have you tried the smaller doses of "poison"? These little cans are so much better for you than their 12 oz counterpart. (This is where my wonderful logic comes in again!) I can drink one of these guys and not feel the guilt of drinking their bigger sister! For those of you who are money savvy (and pay for your groceries with bags of change!:)) are probably wondering if I know that these little guys cost more per ounce than the big sister... I do! This is where my logic kicks in and I pay more for less in this instance. Less caffeine, less poison, still DC.... these little cans make me happy!


This Aquaphor is one of those products where I have to throw my "cheapness" out the window. It's a little pricey but can be bought in "CVS brand" for a lot less and the product is just as good. I have about 3 of these little tubs floating around my house. I attribute the fact that neither of the girls have ever had a diaper rash to this stuff!! If their buns start to look a little pink, I dry them off really good and smother this ointment all over them... and voila it takes the pink away and no diaper rash ever comes!! It's BETTER than any diaper rash cream/ointment in the world!! I PROMISE! It also comes in little squeeze tubes and is great for chapped lips! This stuff makes me happy!



Moving right along to clothing and shoes. Old Navy in general makes me really happy. It's cheap and cute and what more could you want? I bought these little satin slippers on the clearance rack after our pacis burnt up on the stove. I bought them in red and black and love them both! They're satin so they are cute to dress up a pair of jeans. I'm definitely not very "fashion savvy" but I think my sister would even approve of these! Oh, and I forgot to mention the price $9.97! These shoes and the Old Navy clearance racks make me happy!



I know exactly what you are thinking... (especially my friend Anne who is a cleaning supply guru) "Oh no, she's caved in and bought the cheapest detergent on the shelf... Purex is crap!" I don't blame you for thinking this... I used to buy Purex before I had kids but then I realized it didn't really work and it didn't really smell good. Well, last week at Walmart it called my name from the shelf and begged me for a 2nd chance! Being the gracious housewife that I am, I decided to give it a second chance, it did, after all, say "Ultra Concentrated". And guess what.... I LOVE THIS STUFF! I have a front loader washer and have to be very careful about using products that aren't HE (High Efficiency) but this "Ultra Concentrated" stuff works great and SMELLS so good! I bought the Linens & Lilies and it smells so fresh and crisp, but not overbearing! And for those of you who are "environmentally sound" this detergent is ALL NATURAL! This stuff makes me happy!




Sorry for the tiny picture! Best I could do on "google". This is my Keurig Coffee Maker that I am in love with! This little guy is a little pricey ($99 at Target) and I can't say that I would have ever splurged and bought it... but that's what sisters without kids do for sisters who live in gross rental houses and have 2 kids! (Thanks, E!) Anyway, Christmas is coming soon and I thought maybe you all could ask Santa to bring this down the chimney and stuff it in your stocking! Here are a few things I LOVE about it! 1) Fill it with H20 1x a week. 2) It brews one cup at a time. 3) The filter is contained in the "K cup" and you toss it in the trash after you brew your cup. 4)No POT to clean everyday. 5)For those of you who are cheap like me... you can buy a refillable "personal" K-cup that you can refill and clean out after each brew.... but the point of this machine is that it's easy and that makes coffee brewing a little more difficult than it's supposed to be with the Keurig! This makes me happy... every morning!



Ok, so this man is named Fernando Ortega.... some of you may know him (not personally) but you may have heard of his music, others may not have a clue who he is or what he does! But I will tell you this, he makes me very happy! He takes hymns and "redoes" them (that's what people who aren't musically inclined write-- I'm sure there's a better term). My current favorite by Ortega is "There is Power in the Blood" from his "Shadow of Your Wings" album, I can crank it up really loud and put the windows down and get lost in it.... it's fantastic and so is he, and I can't think of anything better to get lost in on a beautiful day! So, I think on this lovely Friday, I'll be playing this album cranked up with my windows cranked down! Can you see me now?!